Sifting through the profiles of beautful girl after beautiful girl, we kept asking ourselves are they real? We honestly had no clue so we just went to Google and start researching this site. We looked on Google see what kind of reputation that CharmDate. We ended up finding real reviews from real people who used the service. These were not fake positive reviews written by reputation management agencies to make online dating sites look credible. These are all legitimate reviews from paying customers of CharmDate.
This first review we took was a screen shot see screen shot below from a member who joined the site. His indepth review was truly amazing. The reviewer said that CharmDate. The women are paid for the photos taken in model shoots. The female profiles you see on CharmDate. This site employs translators who are paid to pretend to be the women in the various female profiles on the site.
And this is 24 hour per day business, so they have people working around the clock sending and replying to emails all to get you to use your credits. The big problem here is that this is a credit based dating service, the more you use the site you more end up paying. The reviewer goes onto say that computer generated messages bombard you when you log into the site.
There aren't real women sending you instant messages back and forth, it's all a con game. And of course the end goal is to get you as a paying user to spend as much money as they can by chatting back and forth with you. They want you to burn through your credits as fast as possible because then you will need to buy more credits. The more credits you buy the more money the site makes. And the reviewer then explains that not all the profiles are fake but most of the attractive profiles are phony.
Screen shot of review we found online stating. Screen shot above stating that Charm Date is a rip off. The review goes on to state that these women are employees of the site and they get paid per letter so there's an incentive for them to continue to write emails back and forth so the amount of credits burned is fast. You can easily go through thousands of dollars on a site like this if you don't watch it. In the review they guy goes on to say he's very suspicious of the five star reviews he saw on SiteJabber.
This was our thought as well, many of the positive reviews look very scripted and could very well be written by the same person to make the site seem more legit than it is.
The screen shot below is from another reviewer and member of CharmDate. He states that this is an absolutely fake site and the girls told him "they were pushed to sell sell sell". Then he mentions that you could be "out possibly thousands of American dollars" by using the site. These reviews are all coming from people who have spent a substantial amount of time on the site and probably a good chunk of their own money so it's worth looking at these reviews and understanding they're giving you a warning of what will happen if you purchase credits on this site.
This is coming directly from the horse's mouth, members who purchased memberships on CharmDate. These sites include, CharmDate. The two messages I received back had I think about 8 words. My messages to her were in the to words so after the 2nd. She sent back a few responses asking me to reply but never did. I had learned my. Short but sweet but I now know better.
Take a look at the photo shoots. We men are so guliilble. Nothing like a beautiful face, along with. Listen i learnt the hard way, was communicating with one woman for a few months and planned to meet.. I did an investigation and found the same photos on different sites yet different people, i even found the real person and she had not use the sites.
Don't fall for it you'll be a victim and like me lose alot of money. I'm surprised that so far there are so few comments about CharmDate considering how many guys have or are presumably still trying to find their "other half" on their platform. It is not as if this dating site is new as it has been going for quite some years as far as I am aware. Yes the photoshoots for the most part appear to be professionally done, and the videos of the ladies leave the viewer none the wiser with the music drowning out the non-existent sound of the lady's voice.
That is not to say whether or not what is presented is in their exact words or written by someone else on their behalf. It doesn't matter how well formulated the presentation and the format are if you are in effect simply paying for an experience and nothing more.
One thing that would ingratiate guys with just average-looking profile photos are the sheer number of letters one can receive in a month, depending on how much time they spend browsing on the site.
Not that I spent a lot of time browsing for any likely candidates as I was engaged with "corresponding" with no more than 3 ladies for almost 2 years. But one thing new users should ask themselves is whether they can in all honesty believe that the attention they receive from all those ladies is real. That is certainly part of a recipe in the interests of generating a lucrative income exploiting gullible men rather than facilitating genuine relational encounters as with some sites where you pay a periodic membership subscription.
Another feature of CharmDate that confronts you provided you do not hide your profile are the almost incessant popping-up of these "bots" inviting you to "chat" with "them" — I mean the photos of the ladies complete with comments, compliments, questions, statements, suggestions, innuendo sometimes crude.
How do you know for sure whether you are actually "chatting" with the ladies in the photos, or whether you are unknowingly "chatting" with someone "managing" the profiles of these women? Even if you can see the real women on videochat or webcam, chances are they are being instructed by the employees on what to say or write throughout the process.
I have observed this when at least one lady requested a chat with me. Another thing that I can confirm is that ladies are prohibited from sharing personal contact information, and if they do so then they are removed from the site. As I mentioned above, I had "corresponded" with 3 women over a period of a little less than 2 years. There was one particular woman whom I had written and received letters and photos over a period of 18 months or so.
This woman was real, however I later discovered an embarassing and unpalatable truth which for me cast a big shadow on her apparent sincerity. That is the thing that can get one hooked, line and sinker. It can be hard to prove without concrete evidence that the woman who apparently shows so much "heartfelt" admiration for you is being proportionately dishonest. Without disclosing too much detail, it so happens that this woman does have a Master's degree in Psychology.
Like I said it can be hard to prove conclusively that someone is taking advantage of you. For me, at any rate, it was not enough to just have a feeling that something was not right. We were exchanging quite lengthy epistles for a number of months before the letters became shorter but more frequent. I can only be "grateful" that many of the exchanged letters were at least words each. In many letters there was at least some degree of plagiarism, and some showed blatant, word-for-word copying and pasting of whole paragraphs.
It took me almost a year of writing to discover one of her profiles on social media through one of her photos. Very difficult to track down if the person has blocked or disabled the ability of anyone ever finding them through a search engine.
Meanwhile the "correspondence" continued for some months beyond my finding one of the woman's social media profiles. In the latter part of , she decided to part ways and finally stopped writing. The truth is that in the end I was not too sorry this had happened. Later I discovered the awful truth that shocked me in one way, but in another it only confirmed a niggling doubt. One day when I again checked her social media profile, it showed that she was actually married, and had been for some months prior to her decision to stop writing.
The only "decent" thing she did was to get her profile removed from CharmDate. I hope that they understand and learn from this sordid example and avoid CharmDate and similar sites like the plague. Thank you for the "feedback"! Your information is very helpful, candid and I think relevant. I have been on Charmdate. These are women who I reached out to and are within a realistic age range to me. I am 48 and the youngest I'm messaging is Over this month I have not spent any more money than I would weekly at Starbucks, so in my mind I'm OK with that amount.
My way of being able to compartment things in my brain I guess. I have been able to get one fo the women to tell me some "rules". She said after the exchange of 10 messages she would be able to provide personal contact information. I'm willing to spend the small amount of money to see if this is true.
I will let people know if there is success. Noticing those who are out of balance with these new energies are going from one extreme from like super excited with new changes to then doubt and the old coming back up again.
One polarity to the other…so those who have a tendency to swing from extreme high to low, are doing just that right now especially with the new moon energies. With this surge of empowerment energy, breathe and bring your energy from going outwards inwards…. Ahh today is a new and great day for new discoveries about ourselves…so much is happening for each of us…. Also, this is past life, this is from other planets or galaxies, this is Ancient and also from First incarnations….
Part Two You know, this New Ascension that we are now in, is so very different to what I have been through in the last 23yrs.. So you will see others who are still establishing a new connection with the Divine in this lifetime, that will be struggling right now and going through some major tough times…. By not jumping into their mud puddle and stress with them, no, step out of their mud puddle and let them know you are reaching out your hand and are there, for when they go through what they are, that they know or realise help is here!
It really is Beyond Time for souls to help themselves! And when they do, we can feel this energetically and then we can re-connect with them…. The Divine and angels and so many other energies of the Divine are HERE for you to call on and allow in to assist, guide and support you! Like a pendulum swinging from one extreme to the other…. Bliss and then deep pain and old cellular and DNA memories being healed…. We then reach a new space of a new blank space, after clearing out all others energies out of our spaces, our private spaces….
Feeling into and trusting ourselves deep deep within or handing over and trusting the Divine Guidance that is there that does come through when we do so…. We are our No. Another past life-review wave came through whilst still shifting from previous past life review energies….
As there are a lot of shadow energies that have surfaced that many are still learning to accept as part of themselves to accept. We keep growing and learning and ascending…we just learn how to navigate better and to trust and know we are so looked after and supported…. Time to change old deep patterns or words that are now also newly arising that we may not have realised was buried deep inside our souls….
The Pendulum swung out further as we have expanded in the new and as its swung out further its also then swung deeper to reveal hidden traumas. The hardest yards are OVER even though people are still going through a lot, they may not realise this! So those who have done all these previous steps and there will be challenges, it wont be as intense for as they have done the ground work.
Of remembering to keep bringing this into the human body or to keep bringing oneself in to our bodies…over and over and over. Where have we given our power out or over to with someone is coming up a lot as well…those who feel they do not have their own power in any given moment…no matter what the situation.
Have faith and trust in yourself in just how very far you have come…New Beginnings and Joy and Bliss is here, with all else we are experiencing and remember we need our own time and space for ourselves to process feel and release what is going on for us. Anastacia has been gifted her Spiritual Soul, this is what makes her a Trailblazer for humanity. Being one of the to assist humanity with the ascension opportunity of what she is bringing through in human embodiment with her unique healing tools and methods of personal experience over 23yrs.
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